Most modern men and women have the experience of blind dates, and the most controversial issue is who should pay the bill. Some people think that it is natural for boys to pay the bill, so how can we find a partner without spending this little money? Some people think that men and women are equal, and the AA system for meals is only reasonable. So who should pay for the first meeting on a blind date?
Meeting on a blind date for dinner is fate. Since it is fate, Both people should show their sincerity, and the AA system is the best embodiment. It is said that eating people is soft-mouthed, and taking people short-handed, a small meal is also a favor. When we first met, the boy took the initiative to pay the bill out of affection, and the AA system was his duty. If a guy pays the bill, a girl will owe you a favor. But if she doesn't like you, this favor is of no use. So it’s best not to owe each other anything.
In fact, the purpose of meeting for dinner is to judge what kind of person each other is through the other person's words and deeds. If you feel that she is not suitable and do not want to continue the development, then it is okay for everyone to pay their own way. But if you feel good about her and she has a good impression of you, it is best to take the initiative to pay for it. If she chooses AA, then respect her choice, but when it comes to girls you like, it's best to take the initiative.
Everyone says that men and women are equal, and girls need to be financially independent, so it is even more important to have an AA system, which shows that you respect her. If a girl takes the initiative, it means she is a good girl. If a girl rejects you because you proposed AA, then there is no need to have a close relationship. Maybe she just likes your money.
Many girls will feel that the boy who asks her to pay cannot accept it because he is too stingy. But we are not rich, handsome, and we take the initiative to foot the bill every time we date a girl. I believe it is also a heavy burden on you. Don't try to make a fool of yourself, just raise it if it doesn't work.
Especially when you meet a girl who only orders food and doesn’t cultivate feelings, you must be AA. Because her purpose of meeting you may be to have a casual meal and drink, and she is not sincerely looking for a partner. And if a girl really likes you, she won't mind having sex with you.
Of course, taking the initiative to pay the bill will leave a good impression on girls, but AA will make girls feel stingy to a certain extent. If you want to solve this problem better, you can choose a more cost-effective restaurant for a date that you can afford, or ask the girl in advance whether she accepts AA.
