Personally, I prefer to fall in love with someone who has a mature outlook on love, so that both parties will be much more relaxed, but having said that, there are very few people who really have a mature outlook on love, so today I will Let me tell you what mature love is like. I hope you can change after reading it so that you will not let her down who has been waiting for you so hard.
1. Being able to have my own independent space
Even if we are under the same roof, I am busy with my work , Even if you are busy with your work, you will not feel any distance, and everyone will feel comfortable and at ease. Two people do not have to have the same interests and hobbies, but they must respect each other's hobbies and learn to seek common ground while reserving differences.
Everyone is an independent individual and needs his own space.
2. Will use practical actions to care for the other person
When she is sick, you will not just let her drink more hot water, but you can take her to see a doctor or take care of her at home;
When she says she is too busy to have dinner, instead of just asking her to go eat quickly, she can take her straight to the restaurant or silently order takeout for her.
Don’t just talk about your concern for your significant other.
3. Mutual understanding and mutual trust
Girls should understand that it is “natural” for boys to love playing games, and it is also a way to relieve stress. Concentrating on playing games does not mean that they do not care about you;< /p>
Boys should understand that girls will be in a bad mood during their menstrual period and need more caring and warm comfort.
When two people are together, they should not be suspicious of each other.
4. Make trouble together for small things, and lean on each other for big things
Normally, we have the same laughs, and we can have fun together, but when she is in trouble, you can help her solve her problems. And not just verbal comfort.
It can make her feel safe and reliable around you.
5. Do not lose your temper unreasonably
Do not encounter unhappy things or conflicts between two people Just lose your temper and wait for others to coax you. The key is to analyze the problem calmly and rationally and then solve it.
When there is a conflict, the two of you are not each other's "enemies". The conflict is the "enemy" that you need to overcome together.
6. Members will try their best to give each other the best
They will want to use all their abilities to protect her and bring all the good things to her. . Put yourself in her shoes instead of just thinking about yourself.
7. You may not be good at words but you can express your love sincerely
You may not be able to say sweet words or sweet words, but you still love herYou will express it sincerely in your own way, so that she can feel your love for you, and your love for her will be revealed in every moment of your life.
I have to say that I also want to have a non-breakup love with such a boy. So if you also want to capture her heart, let's first see if you can meet these conditions.
