With the development of the Internet, more and more people are now starting to date online. However, due to the special nature of online dating, it is very likely that the two parties in the relationship have never even met in person. In this case, if the person you are dating online asks you for money. , what to do?
1. Refuse directly and politely
If your relationship is not that deep, your online dating partner will come to you If you want money, there is no other way to say it, just refuse. You can say, "It's the end of the month and I'm going to have a full moon." "Well, I also asked you to borrow some money and I want to change my mobile phone, but it seems I have to put it on hold." "It's okay if you want money. Can you come over here first and let's meet?" Face. (After all, there are still many examples of people pretending to be beautiful women and chatting online to cheat money."... If your online dating partner blocks you or even breaks up with you because of your rejection, then there is nothing to say. , just break up. And if she broke up because you didn’t give her money, doesn’t it just prove that he is interested in your money and not your person?
2. Ask about the reason for borrowing money
In any case, there are indeed some examples of people cheating money and sex in online dating. Whether they are boys or girls, they must have self-esteem. It is always good to be protective and keep an eye on her. You can ask her why she wants money and ask her to confirm the authenticity of what she said. Then, of course, you have to consider whether to give her money based on the situation. The amount, if the amount is too large, forget it, even if you add her with better conditions, money is not squandered like this.
Of course, if your online dating partner really encounters difficulties, if you can confirm the authenticity. In this case, you can actually consider borrowing, but you have to look at the amount and don’t get too deep.
3 .According to your relationship
If you are still limited to online dating and chatting online, and you only know the other person’s information from what he said online, it can only be said that you don’t know her well enough. Of course, in this case, it is best to refuse the online dating partner's request for money. If you have developed from online dating to real life, both of you have met and contacted each other, and you also know her specific situation and what kind of girl she is. In this case, you You can decide whether to give her money.
In fact, most people may feel a little uncomfortable if your partner directly asks you for money, because love is actually a process of active giving by both parties. If one party takes the initiative to ask for it, it seems a bit unbalanced. Not to mention the situation where the online dating partner asks for money. Some people may also refute me, thinking that it is a girl who wants to test herself. If you don't give her money, she will think that you don't love her because you are not willing to spend money on her. If there are still people who judge whether a man loves a woman or not by whether he is willing to spend money on her.As the only standard, I can only say that she may have misunderstandings about boys.
