The feeling of liking someone is both wonderful and painful. It is wonderful because of the hormones in your body, but it is painful because you cannot control other people's hearts. Teacher Luo Xiang said that the only certainty in this world is the uncertainty of life. Sometimes, we can’t even understand our own hearts, let alone a girl’s heart? Therefore, if a boy wants to pursue a girl, he should make his determination clear and do the following three things before he can have a chance to spend his life with the girl he loves.

1. Practice basic skills

There is no way to choose a person’s birth. But the future path can be chosen by yourself. Throughout the ages, the burden on boys' shoulders has not been light. They should not rely on their parents, do not cheat or cheat, and should not be disappointed and depressed. They persevere and struggle for tomorrow. Whether they are working or starting a business, no one has an easy life.

So, if a boy wants to pursue the girl he likes, in addition to having a passionate sincerity towards the girl, he must also practice the solid basic skills of treating life like his first love. Perseverance is a quality valued by girls. With the courage to face hardships, you will not be afraid of thorns on the road ahead.

2. Find out your core competitiveness

Boys pursue the girl they like, just like entrepreneurs pursue their dreams. They don’t know whether they can succeed, but they feel that there is a bright future ahead. There is light, which is the direction you must pursue. Therefore, when a boy decides to pursue the girl he likes, he should collect information, write a feasibility report, find out his core competitiveness, and see if he can seize the market just like he did at the beginning of his business.

No one will always stand there waiting for you. If you don’t work hard, the opportunity will be fleeting. The same goes for courting girls. For example, some boys have good family conditions and a solid material foundation; some boys work hard but are smart; some boys are not good at expressing but are true and reliable, etc. No one is perfect, everyone is a special being in this world, they are just waiting to be discovered.

3. Can endure loneliness

No one has ever suffered from loneliness in love, whether it is secret love, pursuit, falling in love or breaking up, this kind of love can only be understood Everyone has different levels of experience with the indescribable state of mind. Therefore, when boys pursue girls, they must be mentally prepared to endure loneliness. Only when they can endure loneliness can light wait in the darkness. I believe that girls will not find anything strange about the feelings of a boy who cannot bear loneliness, nor will they cherish them.

Although we are in a fast-paced era, and fast-food pursuits of love are almost as fast as rocket launches, every girl has a set of ideas about love, not to mention the simplest sweet words, flowers. The movie just talks about sincerity and patience towards girls. If you don’t have it, how can you feel the magic of love?secret? Chasing a girl is not a journey that can be started just by saying "I like you" once you meet. The road ahead will be slow, take it easy and cherish it.

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